"Arranged and Love marriage"
Today I got a good news for which I was waiting for a long time .. My cousin is ready to get married now and finally she got engaged.... M so happy for her .. She was against arrange marriage saying that "If I do not knw a person, how can I marry him"... Here the person whom she doesn't knw is chosen by her parents and parents can never think wrong for their childeren ... parents have more experience then us and they can see far more than us .......
It is not the case that arrange marriages does not have problems ... but as per my expirience and knwledge love marriages also have problems and that too more than an arrange marriage...
My sister is finally doing and arranged marriage and she is happy about it .. when she was in between 20-24 she was after love marriage and now she thinks arranged marriage would be good for her .... May this is a matter of age ...
Mine is arranged marriage and i never met my husband before marriage .. We spent whole one year in understanding each other and now we are very happy with each other (touch wood) ....
I dont understand why people do not listen to their parents .. Why they go against their parents in every respect .. What do they want to show??????
Anyways my point of view is "arranged marriage is better than love marriage" .. and as time passess may be my views change ...
What about you...........................................................
2 comments:
arrange or love..marriage is final. and if there is no understanding and mutual respect..marriage will not work. and in my view if the relation is not working..better leave it insted of doing compromises again and again and make life a hell. I am not denying the fact that we cant sit and talk over the issue and fix them. but some times fixes dont work in relationship till the time we dont try from heart. i remember a good line here.." Ghaant agar lag jaye, to phir rishte ho ya dor,laakh karen koshish..khulne mein waqt to lagta hai..."
so if you compromize all your life, one day you will finally solve the issue..but whats the benefit..life is over now..do you have time to live a happy life?
now Parents, who says parents are always correct..may be most of the time..but not always..I strongly believe that age is just a number. Age is nothing to do with experince. if you dont grow your experince,age has no mening in it.
Hmm... I respect your comments but dont believe this ..... according to me relations can not be broken and if a lil compromise can solve your issue what's the catch in that .. I dont believe you can break a relationship so easily .. Moreover .. It all depends on situations .. May be you have faced such a situation that you believe this ........ will talk to you later regarding this :)
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