I DONT UNDERSTAND

I DONT UNDERSTAND.......
(1) Why people think so small .. so negative .. so wierd .. so strange .. so different...

(2) Why people are jealous of others... Why do they just dont mind their own business .. Why are they interested in other's life ... My papa used to say if someone is jealous of you, that means you are going in the right direction and getting success .. But still, what I think is if people does not have caliber to move ahead and get success in life, why are they jealous of others and crib about them ...

(3) Why people smoke .. when they knw that smoking is not good for health .. One day I went to a friend who was smoking and asked him to give me one cigerrette .. he firmly said "shubhali, smoking is not good for health".. so when he knws that it is not good for health, why does he smoke???? couldn't get the answer yet...

(4) I dont understand why people have the complex and feel themselves lesser then others .. due to which they tend to insult others in front of everyone .. They cannot be happy in others happiness ..Why do they pressurize others to listen to them and follow their instructions ... If I m doing everything I can for others, why cant they support me in my deeds ... Why do i have to follow their instructions all the time....

(5) I dont understand why people compare to each other, which creates complex, which leads to insults and hence a tensed or broken relationship ... I never compare anything from anyone .. but people compare simple things with me and get irritated .. I never wanted to show them down, but they feel it and hence creates problems for me and themselves unknowingly .....

(6) I dont understand why I cannot say anything to anyone in this world .. Why people think that i m an ocean which can bear everything in it ...which can cover anything in it and won't say a single word ... wont give any expression regarding this ... wont feel any frustrations, grievances .. I dont understand why they feel that i m a stone who can bear everything...

I DONT UNDERSTAND why all this is happening and what should be my reaction ..........